How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

How can reading fiction be turned from escapism into personal growth?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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